Meet Lindy
My Story: Seeing Through God's Eyes
My perspective began to shift as I was struggling in my own marriage. All I could see was my own view — frustrated, angry, and bitter about things I couldn’t change.
Our family was dealing with many challenges — depression, mental illness, addiction, and the autism spectrum — things that couldn’t simply be “fixed” by doing more. I was doing the best I could, but I felt helplessly stuck in a victim mentality.
It wasn’t until God helped me see from a new perspective that things in my marriage began to change. He helped me see my husband the way He saw him — a view I never could have seen on my own.
That divine shift changed everything.
Through these experiences and many more, I developed what I call the BE/DO Concept — a simple but powerful way to understand how different people think, communicate, and connect. It’s a way of looking at people through the lens of love. And when we choose that lens, deeper understanding and genuine connection naturally follow.
Love and understanding are at the heart of everything I teach.
Relationships & Connection
We all need connection.
It’s our connection with others that helps us feel safe, valued, and loved. Yet because people think and understand in different ways, we often misperceive and misunderstand each other — making connection harder than it needs to be.
I love helping individuals, couples, and organizations discover new ways to approach their differences so they can strengthen their relationships instead of pushing each other away. Most of the time, the real problem isn’t the situation itself — it’s how we’re seeing it. When we shift our perspective, challenges can naturally resolve, and connection becomes much easier.
What I Teach
What I learned through that experience has become the foundation of my work today.
I help people see their relationships through new eyes — learning to understand rather than judge, to see with love rather than frustration. When we begin to understand how people think, communicate, and connect differently, we can approach our challenges
with greater compassion and clarity.
When our perspective shifts, connection becomes easier, communication improves, and relationships naturally grow stronger.
How I Help
I share these principles through a variety of ways:
Mentoring and Coaching – Personalized guidance for individuals and couples to strengthen self-awareness, communication, and connection with themselves and others.
Speaking and Workshops – Inspiring presentations that teach communities, schools, and organizations how to create a culture of connection.
Music and Songs4U – Using the power of music to take the hard things in life and turn them into inspiring messages of hope.
No matter the format, my goal is the same: to help people connect — with themselves, with others, and with God.
Faith and Hope
It's God that helped me discover these principles, and while I love helping people discover them through mentoring or classes, my goal will always be to help you discover Him firsthand. He knows what you need and the real miracles will happen once you start trusting Him. I love sharing my own personal journey of hope through inspirational songs I wrote on my own journey. It's one of my favorite events to do.
Let's Connect
If you’re ready to experience more understanding, peace, and connection in your life or relationships, I’d love to help you get started.
My Bio
Lindy has been studying perception and relationships for over a decade. Her book, Decision to Love, tells the story of her marriage and how she learned people could have opposite perceptions of love. From her findings and inspiration, Lindy developed a simple model called The BE/DO Concept. This easy-to-understand concept helps people understand why misperceptions and misunderstandings can easily happen in even the best relationships. As a speaker, Lindy loves helping audiences see new perspectives, understand why relationships may have gone the way they have, and give their lives hope for a more positive outcome.
In addition to being a professional speaker and author, Lindy is a certified positivity practitioner, mentor, and singer/songwriter. Like most people, life hasn't been easy for her, but she has learned how to use music to overcome her adversity. She loves helping people write songs of hope, to help them get out of their negative thoughts and focus on what they actually want instead. Lindy has written over 300 original songs and has several music albums entitled "Little Miracles," "Thy God, My God: Strength from the Lives of Biblical Women," "Reflections of Eternity," and her musical "For Such A Time As This."
Lindy is also a mother to seven beautiful children (six living) and grandmother to four. She lives in South Jordan, UT.
For information on hiring Lindy to speak or sing at your next event, call 801-946-4575 or email: [email protected]
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