Meet Lindy

I want to help people feel hope — in their relationships, in their lives, and in themselves.

This was me.... back in 2003

I was overwhelmed.

I had five children (I now have seven), and I felt no real connection in my marriage. I wanted a better relationship, but I didn’t know how to fix it. I was doing everything I knew how to do — and it still didn’t feel like anything was ever going to change.

What did bring me hope during that season was my focus on my children… and on music. Writing and sharing inspirational songs became a way for me to process, breathe, and rely on faith that things could still change.

When everything finally made sense

In 2010, I was introduced to what would later become the BE/DO Concept (I wish I'd known about it earlier.)

I realized that my husband and I weren’t failing at love — we were simply seeing it differently.

I experienced love primarily through doing — sacrificing time, showing love through action, and trying to make others feel valued by what I did.

My husband experienced love through being — allowing people to be themselves, offering acceptance without criticism or judgment.

We were both showing love sincerely… but because we weren’t showing it in the way the other recognized, we missed it entirely.

That realization changed everything.

What I do now

Today, I help individuals, couples, leaders, and teams understand these differences — not to assign blame, but to create clarity, connection, and lasting change.

Through keynote speaking, mentoring, teaching, and music, I help people:

  • understand motivation

  • recognize blind spots without shame

  • communicate in ways that actually feel like connection

  • and rebuild trust in relationships that matter most

Once you see these differences, you can’t unsee them — and that’s where real change begins.

Joy, Purpose and Connection

And when I get to do this work while also sitting at a beautiful piano like this one — I feel like I’m exactly where I’m meant to be.

If you’re ready to see things from a new perspective and feel hope again — even in the middle of hard things — I’d love to talk.

For information on hiring Lindy for your next event, call 801-648-9998 or email: [email protected]

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